True Antipodes

     He sits there, in that exact desk, everyday with that abeyance that I cannot seem to break.  It is almost as if a bacchanal would be the only solution to this temporary silence and inactivity of his.  What is a girl to do, jump on the desk and display herself in a highly foolish manner?  No, a solution that is not, for that would be the personification of an ingenue of which I am not.  There are rules that need to be followed, in order to preclude such a personification.  These rules and guidelines of which I speak of, are highly eminent within the mind of a female.  Such rules and guidelines pertain to the ideas that a woman cannot overtly exhort a man into obtaining a liking for her, for she might be deemed highly annoying and quite pushy.  Another ideal of a woman's behavior, would have to pertain to the idea that a woman should not have too much brio when around that man of her liking, for that might frighten him away.  However, a woman does not want to be too enigmatic, for that might create a persona of that woman to be too unknown and mysterious, causing the man to either lose interest in that secretive woman, and once again obtain some type of fright and fear of that woman as well.  Two other main ideals, encircle around the idea of a woman's value to a man.  If a woman wants to be another cameo within a man's life, then that woman would lower her value, in order to be with that man, which is highly inadvisable. However, a woman should not be bombast while in the presence of that man of her liking, for that would raise her value above the man, and a man might find that to be very intimidating.  Instead of choosing between these two extremes, a woman should stay in between both, expressing confidence and most importantly being herself, for a woman should only be liked by someone who personally likes their true persona.  In order for a woman to really commandeer a man, she must not imbue these types of personas within that man's brain, instead she should be herself, which is hopefully none of the above extremes.  

     However, it truly does depend on the woman and the man that she is after, for a man might be interested in someone who expresses a constantly large amount of energy, or even a woman who has a mysterious veneer, but a woman should still never lower or extremely higher her value when it comes to meeting men, for with men it is usually seen that little self-confidence, and intimidation, are not fancied; however, it all depends.  What does not depend, is the fact that when a woman is looking for that man of her dreams, she should act as though she is an epicure, searching for the finest souffle, or she should act as if she is searching for the most potable beverage, one that is the most enjoyable and the least bit harmful.  Never should a woman desultorily choose a man, and never should a woman settle for a man, for every woman deserves that perfect match, the one that is everything she may not be, but both of them happen to mesh in the best possible way.  A man and a woman must be true antipodes that may not make sense to others, but always make sense to each other. 

     Maybe one day I'll find my special antipode, and maybe I do not have to look that far, for I have a feeling that he might just be sitting in that desk nearby.